Friday, February 13, 2009

Introduction

Welcome all to a blog dedicated to unsure women who need advise from someone other than their disfunctional families and friends who would not know the meaning of a good relationship if it creeped up behind them and stole their purse. This is not going to be helpful for women just trying to pick up men for flings, this is purely for women trying to find good men for long term relationships. This blog will be posted weekly with "The Tip of the Week" and I would be happy to answer any questions that come along with the updates. Without any further ado, let's move right along for the tip of this week.

Rule #1
DO NOT SETTLE!
It does not matter how unattractive you feel or out of shape you think you are, do not settle for a man who does not appreciate you! You are the woman and he should feel lucky to have you not the other way around. Believe it or not it is OK to be a little picky. BUT (and this is of key importance) don't be TOO picky. We've all met nice guys that aren't super attractive, but don't let it get in the way of you giving them a chance. Sometimes you may find the physical attraction coming after you get to know them instead of before. This can go the other way to, you can meet a cute guy that makes you crazy and suddenly he doesn't seem so good looking anymore. That is a lot of women's biggest mistake is solely looking at a man's exterior and then being put off that no one seems attractive to them. Believe it or not (and believe me this seems impossible) but men have feelings too and sometimes it takes them, a lot of courage to go out and try to make a spark with a woman out of thin air.

For more information on identifying and solving relationship problems, check out http://date2relationship.com/. This website uses videos to give advice on various dating situations.

2 comments:

  1. I love your advice!! it is soooo helpful and you are wonderful and I am looking forward to tips rules in the future :)

    Keep blogging

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  2. Brenna, the thing is...the more unattainable the person is, the more attractive. Now I love men, and think I understand them quite well. The thing is, you kinda have to think as they do. Meaning as simplistic as possible!

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