Rule #9

There's one very important way to tell if your man is really interested in you or if he's really not that interested in creating a realationship. You just have to ask yourself, "is he a planner"? What I mean by this is does he go out of his way to arrange the next time he is going to get to see you in advance. It may not seem this way at first, but guys that are spontaneous or don't like to "plan" are not interested in you the way you'd want them to be.

In my experience, the guy would plan for us to meet up, but if I would ask him what time or for anything specific for that manner, he would clam up and say that I was planning his day for him. Needless to say, that's a bad sign. If you are someone like me and do not want to plan your day around someone else's spontaneity, then get out quick! A guy that is really into will plan your next date while he is with you so there is no chance of him not getting a hold of you in the future.